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People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When you know
which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem
like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then,
without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will
say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that
our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent
up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.
Some
people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never
done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas
of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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